Very Shy Guys
Some guys are simply to shy to say anything to a girl they like. This does not have to be the end.
Just keep talking to him and eventually he will start talking. If he’s too shy to call you, just don’t give up on him.
He will take the initiative at some point as long as he knows you still like him.
Shy guys are the best guys out there, because they have much more respect for you than others.
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He NEEDS the chase
I have dated some amazing men and, a few that weren’t so great. There are many things to know, but one of the most important is THE CHASE.
As a man, he NEEDS to feel that you are A CONQUEST. It is a biological fact. Don’t give up your body early into dating him. Make him work for it, and earn your physical affection by treating you properly over a period of time. Any man who is not willing to do this, is ONLY looking for something physical and NOT worth your time.
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Mind Games
Oh for the love of God…the mind games kill me. Act interested, lose interest, go on a date, wait 3 days, then call? What the hell are you waiting for, if you enjoyed the date…then TELL US. Better yet, tell us somewhere you would want to go next time…that relieves so much stress of having to pick where the hell we have to go, what to do, make sure everything is in order, and try with all our might, not to screw up.
We know you’re nervous…we are too, just every once in a while, help us out, if you like a guy, give him clues…I mean real clues, not mixed signals. Place your hand momentarily on ours, rest your hand on our leg. Physical contact is generally a great way to get a guy’s attention.
And please. this is a personal request. If you want a nice guy, and all you date are assholes…date that guy that’s been pining over you for the entirety of highschool…he just wants a shot. If he crashes and burns, at least he had the chance…
This dating tips is written by ShyGuyFool.
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Finding a Safe Dating Site
Seems like everywhere we surf on the Internet nowadays we run across this little advertisement: ‘Free online personals’.
They are everywhere, they are dating sites, and more are opening up shop every day.
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More and more people are signing up to these new and “free” dating sites.
What they are really getting is a place on the web where they can post their profile and let strangers contact them.
As more and more dating sites pile up on the web, more people are ending up with very distasteful experiences because of this.
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Co-Dependency
Co-Dependency is an unhealthy reliance on another person for every thought, action, and feeling. It consists of people who seem to be defined by another other person. One person relies so much on another person’s opinion — that the daily functions they once had as an individual are lost. That individual is no longer capable of making his or her own choices.
A person who is co-dependant is constantly striving to please another person and have made them selves so self-less that they begin to lose who they are. Their life becomes a sacrifice for another person.
A person who is co-dependant ceases to be them self and becomes part of two. A person’s want for someone else in their life is overcome with the need to have someone else in their life in order to function. The person feels the need to spend every waking moment thinking about that other person, being with them, talking to them, or thinking of ways to make that person happier.
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The Magic of Flirting
Flirting is the way most people determine whether or not a member of the opposite sex is interested in them. Following is a quick outline on how you should go about the complex, sometimes fun, sometimes not so fun, task of flirting. It all beings with your approach.
The Approach
One person approaches the other. They move into closer physical proximity. This much is clear: NO approach equals NO possibility of initiating contact. You must approach!
Example: A woman sits down next to a man in a coffee shop, or a man stands near a woman in a dance club. This is the first step. Once you approach, you begin looking for the signs.
The Signs
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The Cyber Lothario
Are you writing to someone who is romancing you off your feet? Does this guy seem to know just what to say or write that gets you a step or two further down the garden path?
Perhaps more dangerous than the notorious Internet rapists and murderers are the Cyber Lotharios. Maybe you know one. Smooth as silk. Seduction is his native language.
More dangerous, because these guys (well, maybe there are girls too, but I am more familiar with the guys) are GOOD.
These guys are the Internet equivalent of a Bill Clinton, if Bill Clinton hadn’t gotten caught. They are the cyber version of handsome — they write beautifully, know just what you want to hear and tell you. They POUR it on, and for a thirsty woman, it is nectar from the Gods.
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CyberCheapskates and Net Gold Diggers
Did you know that Match.com has around twelve million members, but only a million or so of those listed have paid their dues?
The most asked questions from Romance Clients? “Why don’t they answer my emails?” Well, first off, you don’t know and never will. But it’s a pretty good guess is that this guy or lady is cheap.
If you have had much experience as an Internet dater, you’ve undoubtedly had the experience of putting out first email contacts to prospective Sweetheart and then gotten no answer back. A response rate of 30% to first emails is considered good!
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A Nice Guys Guide to Dating Success
Has it ever happened to you? Have you ever had the experience of liking a woman, being a perfect gentleman, and treating her like a queen, only to have her reject you in favor of someone else (possibly very handsome) who doesn’t treat her right, or doesn’t seem to care about her much at all? These kinds of men have been called “bad boys,” “charm boys,” or “players.” When you are interested in women, do they tend to see you as a friend or “brother” rather than a romantic interest? Do women tell you you’re “too nice”? If so, you are not alone. This article will give you, the nice guy, some tips on how to use charm-boy traits to your advantage, while retaining your nice-guy values.
Let’s brainstorm for a minute. What makes charm boys or players attractive? They are fun, spontaneous, unpredictable, mysterious, and act as if they don’t care what others think of them (also known as confidence). They follow their own rules and don’t let others (including their dates) walk all over them. And they often look good.
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Online Dating 101 - Online Dating Basics
Online Dating 101 by Kevin Koger
Feeling like there’s something that’s just not quite there yet in how you’re going about this whole online dating thing? Don’t feel bad, chances are you’re one of the many people who’re still pretty new to this gig. Heck, internet dating has only been around for about eight years, so obviously no one out there can claim to have all the answers.
But hey, seeing that we’ve been perfecting the art of matching people up online all eight of those years, we’d like to share a little of what we’ve learned about how to make the best of your online experience. Who knows, one of these pointers might be just what you’ve been missing in perfecting your own online dating adventures.
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